Boy Problems

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Why is it that all of my girlfriends come to me for guy advice? I mean I don't even know the first thing about these kinds of situations, my friends claim that my advice does help, but sometimes I feel like I didn't help at all. This is not my forte, I'm the shy quiet girl who can barely even talk to a cute guy, let alone give advice about them, Why do we get so engrossed in a guy? I mean what's so special about falling in love? Coming from someone who's only example is all of the boyfriends my mom has had, and then seeing my best friends getting their hearts broken because of some stupid guy... What's up with that? Why is it so important?

 When my girls tell me that A guy broke up with them and I have to see how much pain they're in all I want to do is punch the guy in the face, but my girlfriends always make me promise not to get involved because they know how I get... I always get so irritated. What is wrong with our generation of guys? They take a smart, beautiful, funny girl and tear her apart, she suddenly turns into a totally different person. I really hate guys who don't realize what an amazing girl they had until he doesn't have her anymore, he leaves her broken, leaves her with her best friends to pick up the pieces, I HATE guys who do that to a girl, it's so barbaric, What kind of person would do that to another human being?

 Girls are strong, yet fragile, some of us are broken in ways you can't even imagine, but we hide it pretty well. We are smart, beautiful, funny people who just want to find someone who loves them for who they are, beauty isn't just what lays on the surface, it's the beauty that lays within that is the most important part of the human soul. I hate guys that only look at things on the surface, I hate guys who only love a girl because of the way they look. Some guys are just so cruel and self conceded! It drives me crazy! girls have more to offer than just their looks! To me it's not the beauty on the outside that matters, it's the beauty on the inside, it's a person's personality that I fall in love with, It's the little things that they hide from the rest of the world that gets me hooked, It's the things that they do for other people, someone who is kind, thoughtful, and tells you nothing but the truth, even if it may hurt you. 

 These are just my opinions on the matter, you are free to have you own opinions.

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