Boy problems

So, Some of my friends have been asking me to write about boys... Just for clarification, I've never had a boyfriend but most of my friends come to me for advice. They say it helps...

Anyway, I usually just tell them to follow their hearts, cause that's the most important thing in these types of situations, us girls may be fragile and frail, but we're also smart and head strong, we have emotions yes, but why should we let a guy rule how we see ourselves? If they don't like us for who we really are inside then screw 'em. Guys can be so weird... I mean you never really know what's going on inside their heads while we're sitting there trying to look pretty going "Does he like me? Does he like me?" And then we wonder what the hell is wrong with us when we find out that he doesn't like you the way you like him... High school is stressful enough we don't need a guy to add on to that stress, but hey... We're only human...

It's Human nature to stress over weather a guy likes you or not, there are some girls who are so obsessed they start liking a new guy every other week, but there are some girls who focus on getting good grades and are completely involved in school they don't have time for guy drama... But that's not true... We all get pulled into guy drama, it's fucking frustrating if you ask me. Like seriously what is this? Hearts get broken in the end and it's a huge mess and most guys just leave the best friends to pick up the broken pieces... like are you kidding me? What was wrong with her? What did she do to deserve that? There are some guys I'd like to give a piece of my mind, but I promised my girls I wouldn't... As a best friend myself I really hate seeing my girls upset, I hate seeing them so heart broken ya know? 

Honestly most guys are complete jerks! It's so hard to find a honest nice guy in this world now a days, it's like where do all the good boys go? And honestly we're all nice girls, we just have really fucked up ways of showing it... I'm just the shy girl who's terrified of feeling anything at all because I've had my heart broken before, but not by a guy... I've seen how bad relationships end, weather it was my mom's relationships or my friends' relationships... I don't ever want to feel like that... I want someone who is sweet, kind, caring, and someone who will sweep me of my feet, someone who comes into my life when I least expect it, but doesn't every girl?

My point is we are all beautiful and we all deserve someone like that, We all deserve a happy ending, trust me it will come, all you have to do is stay positive and try not to get hurt to much along the way. I'm positive it's worth the wait. I know all I have to do is wait.    

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